Since the bygone era, we’ve been taught ourselves and even our sons that men don’t cry, that they’re built to endure the revering pain, crafted for all the challenging works and to take any gauntlet thrown at them head-on, meant to require the responsibility of a lady, respect her sincerely, be in their limits, be masculine and pumped up with adrenaline rushing no bounds and what not!
On the women’s day, we flood our social media accounts with hefty resolutions and messages to clansmen. Then why can’t we do this same when we go on to celebrate the Men’s day. To roll our sleeves up and make a beeline to make men feel special on their day also with some equally potent explanations! Let’s teach our sons to cry whenever and wherever they desire. That they’re humans and holding back feelings can gradually kill them emotionally.
Let’s tell our male buddies to succeed in bent us whenever they feel violated around another woman or man. Let’s convince them that sexual exploitations are common to both the sexes and we’ll always be there when anyone dares to harm than a bit as they’ve been. When our brothers’ bikes break down, there’s a bus strike, or it’s too late within the night, let’s promise ourselves to reach his work to select him up for home. To sacrifice isn’t only dad’s duty. He too falls desperately crazy with a shirt that he never finishes up buying because his children exhaust his pocket. Let’s start including him in our shopping list again.
Men are fighting anxieties, setbacks, and rejections since goodbye. If in the least we’re crazy and the sense that he too is, let’s not recoil from happening our knees with a hoop in hands. The enjoyment that’d sparkle in his eyes will make it all worth! Be it the karvachauth or anniversaries, let’s not declare gifting as his lone-wolf job. Let’s promise to ourselves that we shall save for months, do extra shifts to form enough money so we will present him his long craved accessory on special days!
To doubt a lady of an alleged affair or checking her phone every now then can piss her off. Then why can we not think to what extent an equivalent can hurt a man? If we long for love, care and trust, why can’t we invest a match on our men? That’s how a change is caused within the society. We girls can never deny the pivotal roles men play in our lives to assist us in reaching where we’re today. Then why post something on men’s day and mud our hands off all other responsibilities that we owe them? Let’s gift them their share of comfort, peace, liberty too.